I Learned Toxic Masculinity Before It Was Cool

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There are two types of people who read this title: The people who rolled their eyes and the people who got sucked in immediately. But honestly, I don’t care much for toxic masculinity’s relevance in the zeitgeist. I’ve been exposed to unhealthy masculine ideals for many years, so I know that people mean well. But when you take this idea to such a scale it strays from its original intent, just like anything…




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Businessman (myika.co), MMA fighter, poetry fan.<mika@myika.co>

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